I first met Pearl about forty years ago, when she welcomed me - a young single mom - into her home for Christmas. And she continued to welcome me, to make me feel loved and cared about and special every time I saw her after that.
She made the best ginger cookies and the most delicious canned peaches. She sewed wonderful gifts, and I still have a beautiful lap quilt she made for my mother, a stuffed mouse she made for me, and some amazing outfits she made for the teddy bears who were always a big part of our family's story.
Peark having a chat with Henry W., one of several bears who often accompanied us on picnics. |
Pearl loved animals - her own and mine - and always asked after my dogs and cat by name. She had the best laugh, a full-bodied, whole-hearted laugh that expressed her genuine delight in what had been said or what she had seen.
One of my favourite photos of Pearl, enjoying a good laugh. |
With
loving thoughts, from Jean.
If
my sister was here, she would say
“Thank you for being my second mom.”
If
my sister was here, she would say
“You have given me laughter and love”
If
my sister was here, she would say
“Thank you for accepting me for who I am,
For supporting me when I needed support
And for loving me like a daughter.”
If
my sister was here, she would say
“You make the best canned peaches and ginger
cookies.”
(Okay, maybe that is what I would say…..but I’m sure Carole liked them too!)
If
my sister was here, she would thank you
For
being such a big part of her life.
If
my sister was here, she would give you a hug,
And
a bag of silly little gifts that she’d bought throughout the year and stashed
away in boxes and drawers and closets, but each bought because she’d been
thinking of
YOU.
But
my sister’s not here. So trust me…..
She
still thanks you for all that you are,
For
all you have done for her,
For
all the fun times you had together,
For
your laughter and smiles and hugs and love.
And
on this special day of yours,
Please feel her arms around you
As her
spirit hugs you tight and whispers in your ear:
“Happy Birthday, Pearl.”
Yesterday morning, when we knew the end was very close, Bev and I talked about how we could feel, could see, Carole reaching out to Pearl, ready to meet her and guide her on her journey. And last night, she did just that. I know there will be tears and hugs all round - both here and on the other side.
Rest easy, Pearl. You are forever part of my heart, my memories, and my family.
6 comments:
So sorry for our loss, Jean - that's a beautiful tribute...
Thank you Jean. I feel so good to know how Mother was important to you. Love Bev
Beautiful tribute to a woman you loved... My condolences go out to you and Bev....Mary
Jean - what a most wonderful tribute to such a beautiful, loving person. She also welcomed and showed love and kindness to both Donna and myself over the years and I know that Donna will be at the gate, along with Carole to meet her with open arms! I too have and cherish a beautiful blanket (made out of blue jeans) made by Pearl’s loving hands. And I will always remember that fantastic sense of humour ; beautiful smile and infectious laugh. Thank you Jean and RIP Pearl. Love Nancy
Yes what a lovely tribute. Her sense of humour was infectious. She Loved a hug and particularly from my husband, John. And she loved our little dog, Mitzy as well. She shall be missed.
Aileen
This is just a beautiful post Jean!
I never had the pleasure of knowing Pearl and you've tugged at my heart.
I am certain she is smiling as she watches over all those she loves. The photo you posted of her smiling is simply an Award Winning photo. Beautiful!
Thank you for sharing Pearl with us.
(((hugs)))
Del
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